Best Way to Approach Women

If you want know to the best way to approach women without even trying or worrying about rejection, especially by approaching women directly, I got an extra special treat for you…

(First of all, in case you didn’t know, “approaching women directly” means you’re going in naturally without any fancy gimmick or prop known as a pickup artist routine, or what is considered in the Dating, Pickup, and Seduction Community as “direct natural game“.)

Here is a neat little trick for approaching women, by calling out on something that is undeniably true…yet conventionally never admitted.

For example:

You:  “Hey, I’m curious…what do guys usually say when they try to approach and hit on you?”

Her:  *(An “I don’t know” puzzled look)

You:  “Let me guess, ‘What’s your name?’, ‘Where you’re from?’, ‘What do you do?’”  (like you’re mocking these usual guys)

Her:  “Haha”

You:  “So let’s do something different.  How would you try to hit on me?”  (reversing the role)

Now you might say, “But this is still some kind of routines.” Yes and no; however, you’re still coming off in a way that seems natural and situational to the woman instead asking some random contrived routines.

It’s more of a social structure I called “obviousation“, where you’re just being obvious about everything when the right opportunity comes up to be spontaneous.

Previously, I got into how you can use obviousation to break any awkward silence like magic, by “SONA-ing” it (Saying-the-Obvious-to-Neutralize-the-Awkwardness).

Now you can also use the “power of being obvious” to open, approach, pick up, and meet women.

Here is a situation I see all the time in the clubs and bars…

I will see a girl by herself, when her friends leave her for a minute, and she will usually pull out her phone and pretend like she’s play with it or fake-texting, which I see as an easy opportunity to approach being obvious…

Me:  “Are you just texting because you are in an awkward situation?”  (giving her an inquisitive look, with one-eyebrow up and the other down)

Her:  “What?”

Me:  “You know how when people are in embarrassing situations by themselves, they will usually take their attention and pay it to something to keep and make them look busy, like staring at something else, fidgeting with their watch accessory, or…like you in this case, pretending to be texting because you are by yourself and feel embarrassed because you self-conscious about people staring at you.”

Her:  (Regardless of her answer, if she admits or denies it.)

Me:  “No, no that’s fine.  I do it too…so I thought I might take that tension and embarrassment away by having you…talk to me.”  🙂

Or when I standing at the bar…I see a girl, I look at her, smile and go direct and be situationally obvious…

Me:  “So…this is the part where guys will ask you, ‘Can I buy you a drink?’ How about you buy me a drink?”  🙂

Here are some more examples:

“Hey you’re adorably awesome…have any guy have been hitting on you since you’re been in here?”

“On average, how offer do you get hit on by creepy guys per night?  Well, let’s break that record…go talk to that guy over there.”

(These can be used as obviousation-openers, or conversation topics.)

Subjects like these are almost never brought up when approaching women yet very obvious, like I’m mocking the obvious truth, and it can be fun too.

When you approach women by saying unusual yet so obvious remarks, this not only shows great confidence that you are not afraid of how she perceives you, but it also shows you are acceptable about human flaws (inductively her flaws)…and not going to judge her or let her feel embarrassed about herself, which this usually only happens when you have been with a girl for a while, like a girlfriend or wife, where you 2 are used to each others’ embarrassments and have seen each others’ flaws, and it’s perfectly ok.

Like for example, if she burps, it would be like “whatever”.

Behind all her pretty make-up and no matter how much we try to appear cool and perfect, in the end we’re all humans with our flaws.

I can’t tell you how many times how hot a girl may seem, they are extremely self-conscious about how they are coming off to other people, like a delicate flower, especially the extreme hot ones.

This cuts through that socially-correct crap and let her feel at eased and comfortable around you so she doesn’t have to constantly think about how you think about her.

Stating the obvious is the best way to pick up a woman that shows remarkable confidence, and that you are not easily embarrassed.

Have fun with these obvious stuffs you’re calling out on while picking up and meeting tons of women when you’re out there my friend.

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