All girls have a naughty side to them, especially the good girls who have been suppressed throughout their life. They are the ones that just can’t wait to release that bad-girl side, even though they are the most innocent on the outside.
You want to communicate with her naughty bad-girl side.
How?
Well, you can’t just automatically go directly into a sexual interaction, or you will creep them out, especially if they’re the suppressed ones and not used to such strong approach.
Take an indirect approach, that starts out innocent and playful, and slowly transition into being sexual.
The key elements to bringing a girl’s naughty side out, is by using playful-humor. This will allow her to take the interaction not so serious so when the topics get sexually-heated, she won’t feel as uncomfortable, making it easier for her to handle it.
Note, you must not be nervous yourself. You have to be completely comfortable communicating to her in a sexual way too for her to be comfortable.
Keep the interaction humorous and playful, and then incorporate some role-playings into it.
Choose a role that has some sexual associations.
For example, like for me, the role I always like to use to bring out the sex topics, is that of me being a pornstar.
Even though she will probably not believe me, I will stay in character and keep going with the role-playing that I really am a pornstar, telling her to come to my porn-shoot the next day. It is playful, it is humorous at the same time.
This sets up a sexual frame for the interaction, letting her now that you are comfortable being sexual; however, if she doesn’t bulge or gets weirded out, take a step back to being just playful-humorous again.
I have used this on girls who seem so innocent on the surface, to having her talking about herself watching porn and then going into sex about the BIG O.
I’ve even gotten the girl and I to start performing sex acts together with our clothes on in that venue, like the both of us were actually shooting a porno scene just to goof around, that actually made it felt like we were having sex, getting her turned on and to taking her out of that venue.
Or when it was with 2 girls, one of them would be my co-star and the other one would be the porn-director, directing us how to perform.
Regardless of it only being an imaginative role-playing, it feels real and the mind can not differentiate the difference between what is an innocent role-playing and actual sex-performance. Both of these same activities stimulate the same kind of emotion of actually doing these kinds of things, even though they started out as innocent as possible.
Remember, lay the foundation of the interaction that it is playful and humorous, not to be taken serious first, and then go into a sexual role-playing for seduction.
hey there, I am looking for examples or ways to naturaly come across with women in a naughty way. In the bedroom or once I have established a “relationship” I have no problem with this. Meeting people and talking to women is also not a problem for me, however I just dont know or feel comfortable to bring on light sexual inuendo with women at the approach level. Im 54 years old, good looking and easy to talk too however I need some spark as well.
Would you help me find some literature on this please.
Peter
These are very helpful tips. One important I can give you is you should respect the girl and listen to her.
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