Are you familiar with the term “reverse psychology,” where you tell somebody NOT to do something, but they still end up doing it?
Here is my all time favorite classic:
“Do NOT think of a pink elephant…”
…ah ha, you just thought of a pink elephant didn’t you?
Now I want you to understand the power of using reverse psychology on women.
So how can you apply reverse psychology on women to attract and even turn women on?
Well, when you tell a woman NOT to touch you, and she still ends up touching you anyway…why?
(Are we all rebellious by nature, or is it we just don’t like to be told what to do?)
If you tell a woman NOT to think of something, she will eventually think of that thing, like for example, “Don’t even think about us having sex together!”
Even though you told her NOT to think of you guys having sex together, that image will still come to the woman’s mind…“us” and “sex”. That is the story you have implanted in her mind like a tiny seed.
The “Don’t even think about…“ doesn’t even register as much as the “us having sex together!“
Think of the key component you want to register in the woman’s mind, in this cause “us having sex together!”, and the negligible diluter component that doesn’t even register with her, “Don’t even think about…”, which actually tones down the explicitness that can make you get away with it.
Even if she enjoys the sexual nature of the conversation, her anti-slut defense will kick in, making her feel guilty about having such explicit sexual interaction. As dictates by our society, women are not supposed to openly express their sexual interests.
That’s why before I talked about using playful-humor to make the conversation easier to talk sexually with women because once the social interaction is established as being playful and humorous, you both can have a fun time talking about whatever without taking it seriously. The playful-humor is a diluter component not activating the woman’s anti-slut defense.
So whenever you’re taking to a woman, and you to want conjure up something in her mind that might be too explicit for her directly, do it in a way using reverse psychology.
Tell her NOT to do/think of something, but she will still do/think about that thing.
Also, another thing, even if it’s supposed to be something untrue, like hypothetical, the subconscious-mind will still have that idea associated with you.
For example, “If we were a couple, would you like having sex in the backyard in broad daylight?”
The “like having sex in the backyard in broad daylight?” is the key component, while the “If we were a couple…” is the hypothetical diluter component that makes you get away with saying this because it sets up a hypothetical-foreplay that doesn’t really register with the woman as much as the key component.
Using reverse psychology on women is a tool of the trade for successful seduction, but don’t ever use it for evil.
Remember, it’s not what you say, but how you say it…yet they still communicate and conjure up the same image and feeling either way.