If you want to date and sleep with more women in your life…then be their lover.
The lover-role is what you want to strive for.
There is a different between being a boyfriend and lover…as the boyfriend is basically a lover-role with the added relationship-element.
If you’re NOT looking for anything serious but just want to date as many women as possible with being in any relationship, you can do that be being a lover to many women as you want.
I’m going to show you the lover’s formula.
Now before I start…
I want to say this might go against some of the things taught out there in conventional wisdom of dating and attracting women…but as commonly said…all rules were meant to be broken. What’s more importantly is to master your social calibration to understand when those rules are to be applied or broken, as everybody’s different.
Most of the same dating advices say you only need to be a man of utter masculinity and confidence to attract women, and that’s it…they just leave it at that bluntly.
From what I’ve studied and seemed over the past years of all the natural guys who were exceptional Casanovas with women and effortlessly slept with over 100+ women…
They have this one most important quality that is rarely mentioned…that draws everything else from this one-quality that makes them attractive to women.
What is this Secret X-Quality?
Their inner-childishness.
They never gave up that free-spirited heart of a child since they were boys.
Kids don’t have problem with women. It just comes natural to them. They’re unafraid.
(Note I said unafraid of women instead of confident. They may be scared of the dark, or imaginary monsters hiding under their bed, but they’re damn-well not afraid of women because they’re not thinking about it…never learned to be afraid of women.)
In fact, kids are more of a chick-magnet than men are.
“Yooo Gabby, so you’re asking us to be like immature little boys and treat women like little grade-schoolers instead of grow up and be a man?”
Absolutely not! I’m simply saying to inherit those child-like qualities that women find attractive as part of your attractive identity.
Common schools of thoughts say…always treat her like your bratty little sister.
And how do you do that?
…by acting childish, instead of like her father.
Consider it this way…
All your humor, teasing, spontaneity, adventurousness, curiosity, and excitement are your childish-side = the role of lover
Being a fully grown man means maturity, security, wealth, status, and power = the role of provider
So what if we could take that childishness and apply it to meeting women to be her lover?
The Lover’s Formula
Combine the Sex Appeal of a Man + Childishness of a Boy = Lover
This is essential what makes a bad boy. A bad boy is just a guy with masculine sex appeal and childish tendency women find adorable.
You can view this sexy-childishness of a bad boy as how they can get away with the things they do, without being creepy as normal guys will be labeled as.
Go out and experiment with something like these:
“I bet your fingers would taste good with ketchup.”
“I’m gonna tattoo your name on my penis.”
If you say something sexual with a childish-outlook, women will likely find it cute and adorable, but say it WITHOUT that childish-frame…you’re getting the creepy-label.
Another benefit is, women will forgive you more when you’re slightly childish and do/say something offensive/stupid/disrespectful…contrast to if you’re a super-mature man because they’ll expect you to be so proper all the time, and when you do childish things…it’s out of line of your character, and then “Houston, you have a problem.”…a congruence-problem.
The childish-quality gives you the child-like innocence to be easily forgiven.
The real-life person that instantly comes to my mind as the ultimate bad boy is none other than Tommy Lee, who has slept with more women than you and I can count and he can count. There is this aura child-like innocence surrounding him that women find irresistible.
Why playful-humor has always been my favorite ingredient added to my interaction with women.
The Devilish Bad Boy
A bad boy of all things, is a lover to women. They’re not relationship-material. Women know better than to get involved with them because it won’t work out…but they still do so because they exhibit these attractive traits. Bad boy are forever young at heart with their childish, playful outlook.
Of course everybody wants to tell you to grow up and be a mature man to lose that child-like aspects of you.
This alone will makes you somebody that will protect and provide for women…but not somebody who will stimulate their imagination and excite them
(Why do you think some older-women have relationship with younger-men? Because they fulfilled this side to them.)
That childish-part is what women could relate to in attraction for lover-role, and the maturity-part is what she wants as provider/protector-role.
The truth is, women are around boring men all the time who try to be confident all the time but come across as a stiff and creep.
I’ve sure you’ve been out and seen those guys who stand near the bar, who may exhibit great body language, don’t smile thinking it’s cool, and don’t do anything at all expecting women to just approach them and end up wasting their night.
Being childish makes you more approachable and receptive, and it radiates positivity.
Which One would You rather Be?
Women are attracted to bad boy as lovers, and providers are for relationship of convenience.
Ironically, not many confidant men are CONFIDENT ENOUGH to relax and allow their childish-side come out of fear of making a fool of themselves.
Have both. Contradict yourself with a man’s confident boyishness. Having this childish quality is a double-edge blade.
By default, I’m childish around women but then switch to my serious manly side. Attract with childishness, seduce with manliness as I like to say.
The most confident people in the world are not those going around acting tough and macho…in fact those are the most insecure trying to cover it up by acting tough and macho in the first place.
Real confident people are calm and relaxed with a positive child-like outlook because they don’t need to act tough around others when they are tough inside…hidden over with a “veil of fun childishness.”
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