What is Natural Game? Structural Vs Going all Natural

There are typically 2 types of social interaction classified you used whenever you go out: structural and natural.

Being structural is when you are using any structured linear process of interacting, almost like an already rehearsed social performance that you have successfully done before, hence a certain routine.

One example of this would be using the classic M3 Model contributed by the pick-up artist Mystery, in which you are using attraction followed by comfort and then leading up to seduction, broken down in A1, A2, A3, C1, C2, C3, S1, S2, and S3.  (For those who don’t know, these respectively equate to Opening, Female-to-Male Interest, Male-to-Female Interest, Conversation, Connection, Intimacy, Foreplay, Last Minute Resistance, and Sex)

And by being natural, you are basically in the moment and winging it, but that doesn’t mean you are NOT using some sorts of a little bit of a structure because sometimes, something will just pop into your head when you are winging it that will cause you to do a part of a social performance, part of that routine, which could be the same joke you have told your friends or stories.

In this case of talking to a girl for example, if you opened her and have been natural for only a minute and realized that she is already attracted to you, you have already skipped all the attraction needed to be built and no longer need to attract the girl, and now need to make the girl comfortable; and you can go into some stories you have told over and over again you realized that work magically to building comfort with a girl, but not necessary word for word.  (You are editing your social performance.)

But how do you get there where you can wing it as a natural, but most importantly do it right, instead of coming off as a creep or a wimp.

Well, if you look at some of the best pickup-artists today who were once socially incompetent, you will see almost all of them started out using some sorts of structure to guide them to becoming a natural, if they did not, they were already naturals to begin with; and they got so used to that structure that it became programmed into their brain where now they do everything right that gets the girl subconsciously and spontaneously without even thinking about it, which to everybody else seems natural.

Remember first learning how to read back when you were a kid?

You know I always thought it was pointless to learn the name of the alphabet, but now I realized that it was a learning process to being a spontaneous, natural reader.

First you learned the alphabet, then the alphabetical phonics, and then using the structural mnemonic sounds of the letters, you learned to be natural and spontaneous with each new word you come across.

This is the same thing for social dynamics. You wouldn’t properly start out if you weren’t giving some guidelines or structures, or else you would be doing a lot of social miscalibration by trying to be all natural; hence, come across as unnatural.

Why does social miscalibration matter?

Well, there are a couple of reasons, but the main reason is you could unintentionally come off as creepy and loss a lot of social proof.  When other girls see that, your chance are slim to getting her because as you know, girls are always thinking about their status, and with you already being the creepy guy, she doesn’t want to be affiliated with you.

Now I am not preferring structural over natural, or vice-versa, but I am an advocate of using both in conjunction to reach total social mastery because that is exactly where you will want to be eventually!

If you like to learn more about this, you should get my Art of Social Natural where I delve very deep into this, which if you haven’t gotten then you are definitely missing out!

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