The dying question we all like to know…“What is the secret about socially savvy people that makes them exceptionally social, and how can we be like them?” Have you ever been puzzled by somebody who always have the right thing to say at the right time almost like they’re psychic anticipating every upcoming response? It’s… Read More
Tag Archives: Social Skills
Shyness is a Learned Behavior?
What is shyness? Does shyness exist? In my opinion, there is really no such thing as shyness. Shyness is just an explanation to why you are and excuse to prevent you from socializing with others, because you are not socially skilled, and thus you tell yourself you are shy. For people who are shy, I… Read More
Your Social Skills is much more Important than Pickup Skills!
I admit the reason why when I first started learning this whole seduction, dating, and pickup stuffs that I was having a difficult time than most people and hardly getting any progress was because I was missing the very foundation of social dynamics. None of them ever addressed on the basic, the core of it… Read More
Social Calibration is the Ultimate Key to Social Skills Mastery
In my book the Art of Social Natural, I talked about how a social natural is “an efficient social calibrator,” meaning he has lots of social experiences under his belt and with those experiences, make him an extremely efficient socializer, almost like he has a sixth-sense for social dynamic interaction to perceive other people’s emotions… Read More
Use the “F.A.” to Get Anybody to do Whatever you Want Anytime, Every Time
In my last article I talked about “the Pickup Artist loophole“ and briefly introduced you to the FA, Friendly Assertiveness. Now I’m going to elaborate on it so you can get almost anybody to do whatever you ask in a friendly way, by being friendly assertive I like to call it, instead of dominantly aggressive.… Read More
How to Become Your Most Social-Self?
Are you not having the social life you want and find that people always ignore you and never call you up on the weekend to hang out, or are you naturally very shy and reserved and want to just get out of your anti-social shell? Here is a really great article from my friend Arun… Read More
For Those of Us Who Didn’t have the Social Skills Growing Up
I thought I post this because this is something I could really relate to back in college and for many of you who didn’t have the social skills when needed the most to strive in those social situations developed at an early point of your life. It has a lot of great points about those… Read More
Having a Strong Identity is Just NOT Enough
Today, there is something I want to address that is holding a lot of guys back from improving this area of their life. There are a lot of guys I know who aren’t good with women, and they make the excuse saying, “I don’t have a strong identity.” For me, I don’t just limit myself… Read More
Playing this Social Game Can Hurt
What is game? Game is a metaphor we used in the Seduction Community to desensitize or objectify what we experience out in the field so we won’t take it personally. And I got to tell you, it can hurt. There will be nights when you will feel more pain having gone out than if you… Read More
The Ideal of the Social Natural
So what’s going on guys? This past month has been rather hectic for me. My computer has been down and I have been dealing with a lot of mess in my life but that is just part of living. What am I supposed to do, cry about it every time a little upset… Read More
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