Today, there is something I want to address that is holding a lot of guys back from improving this area of their life.
There are a lot of guys I know who aren’t good with women, and they make the excuse saying, “I don’t have a strong identity.”
For me, I don’t just limit myself to one identity but have multi-identities I go by that different women would stereotype as attractive through my fashion and my hobbies and interests, but I still need to have strong sociability to back it up and still have to do the work to get the girl.
Sociability is your competence, skills, and mojos used in social gatherings.
Ask yourself this, “Do you honestly think just having a strong identity is going to automatically make you good with women?”
Having a strong identity is a title, which makes you act in a way to fulfill that identity’s role, but that doesn’t mean you will play that role effectively.
Just because you are given the title of a doctor, doesn’t mean you are an effective doctor. Actually, it works the other way around. You were given the title of a doctor because you went through school and spend endless hours studying until you became really good at it.
The excuse of saying that I only need to have a strong identity, then I can start deserving and be good with women is counter-productive. Let go and let yourself get the girl.
What you really need is to start taking action and develop the skills, instead of waiting to claim that identity or for it to just magically fall into your lap.
That is why you have to have the skills under your belt to back up that identity.
If you want the skills to be good with women and socially, you should definitely check out my Art of Social Natural.
Now this is not just another rehearsed, feel-good delusional covered up advice nor is it just the latest routines and lines.
I show you the skills and how you can develop them to make them permanent.
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