How to text girls to get them attracted to you?
First of all, getting girls’ phone numbers aren’t so difficult these days.
The constant evolution of technologies has made it common practice to exchange contact information with anybody and everybody to allow us all to easily connect with one another. Even if you didn’t want to, you can always block them.
That’s the same goes with getting girls’ numbers. She could have not wanted to be rude so giving you her number wouldn’t mean anything but to just to blow you off her back.
Then the problem now becomes getting her attention and attraction.
I’m sure you have gotten tons of numbers and tried contacting her countless times with not once ever receiving any response or (worse) even had her flaked on a date with you
“How rude of her you say?!”
Not really. Realize you’re not entitled to her in any shape or form just because you got a few digits, so there’s no need to get pissy or beat yourself up about it my friend.
I’ve talked about how to handle girls’ flakes…but that’s before you get the numbers with her already invested in you by the stories you implanted in her mind, as emotional-connection leftovers.
Now what about if you didn’t build enough connection with her in the first place when gotten her number?
That’s the beauty of modern technology. You can build it easily through texting. It’s Simple, Easy, Effortless, Nonintrusive (SEEN) as I mentioned before.
But how should you text a girl to get her attention and attracted to you from being another boring generic loser she gives her number out to?
Let’s try to see it through her world. What kind of text messages do girls usually get?
Same old boring, generic texting-interaction:
Guy: “Hey Felicia”
Girl: “Hey”
Guy: “What’s up?” or “How are you?”
Girl: “Fine” (getting bored)
Guy: “Cool. What you doing today?”
…this already bores the girl out of her mind because you’re just like any other generic, boring loser guy.
You have to be different.
Allow me to introduce to you, “drug-texting.”
What do I mean by “drug-texting”?
It’s a style-form of texting that has effective results through texting-testing during the initial text-interaction to grab her attention.
You have to be sort of a character, conveyed within your text, that is quirky and unusual, like you really don’t care about winning her approval.
As I’m sure you’ve heard of “drunk-texting,” why do I call it “DRUG-texting” instead of “DRUNK-texting”?
Well, “drunk-texting” already has certain association that come to mind. Actually let me ask you what image does come to your mind?
“Drunk-texting” is a text usually sent late at night involving the act of wanting sexy-time.
That’s why I drift from calling this “drunk-texting” because it’s really not late-night texting but anytime (even during the day) with more suitable name as drug-texting, like you’re on drugs but not literally. When you’re on drugs, you’re in your own world from the present.
Here are some drug-texting tips:
– Be childish (Read how being childish attracts women.)
“me likey you”
“me missy you…lets catchy uppy soon”
– Stress the vowel to give it a fun-ringing sound
“cooooooool”
“yaaaaaaaay”
– Make texts unusually long
“i loooooooooooooooooooooove youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu”
“yoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo”
– Limit the emoticons from what’s already jokes (Emoticons are overused these days to show you’re not confident in what you just said.)
“imma spank you”
“you’re a weiner”
– Break sentences up into multiple-words per text
(Below: A sentence broken up, sent instantly after each other.)
“coooooool”
“yaya”
“i come”
“if i can”
– Keep it casual with hint of assertiveness
“yayaya look fool…it was yesterday”
“listen lady, im gotten rock this party tnite…and you’re coming with me yay”
When you’re texting girls for attraction…
Don’t be overly logical. Forget being grammatically correct for everything and do break proper sentence structures that your English professor would fail you for…this is not English class and can even make you come off as boring. Save that for the profession, not when comes to attracting girls
Best way to describe how you should text a girl to get her attention and attraction is…
You have to be in you’re in your own little world when you’re texting her (like you’re on drugs, hence drug-texting) that is cool and pulling her in.
She might even call you crazy, but you will definitely stand out from the other boring usual guys texting her, and be amused by you with your unique style of texting that signals to her you’re a fun guy she can hang out with…which she will want to.
There might be plenty of fishes in the water, but you’re the needle in the haystack.
Think different. Be different. And you’ll get the girl.
