Here’s a question I get asked a lot from guys:
How do you take a woman back to HER place and seduce her?
Not every guy has the best living-condition to bring a woman back to his place, or are ashamed of his place, or heck, even still living with parents. And if you’re from out of town living a few hours away…well, you can always rent a cheap love-motel with embarrassment.
“Quit teasing us Gabriel, help us!”
To have a woman take you back to her place, obviously, you can’t come off the bat and say, “Let’s go back to your place and have sex,” or her anti-slut defense will surely go overdrive and you have ruined your chance.
You have to make it sound indirect and ambiguous on the surface…but deep down, she knows what’s going to happen or could happen.
Make it sound like you 2 are going to her place, but there is something that is going to prevent you 2 from possibly having sex…
For example, women do this all the time, “I have to get up early tomorrow for work.”
(Yeah, like 11am is early.)
I have had this happened when women invited me over, and she said I could crash and even cuddle…but explicitly said, “We’re not going to have sex” directly.
Don’t you see the paradox?
Deep down she wants to have sex by her hidden suggestion…but verbally…she wants it to appear like that’s not what she wants, so she tells me that out loud.
And guess what?
We do end up having sex.
This process is rooted from her anti-slut defense to not wanting to feel like or be thought of as a slut.
You know how women will usually say, “It just happened.” It’s their plausible deniability.
It’s even more effective if you’re the one who says this, “We’re not going to have sex,” or you inject your own verbal-cockblock that will prevent you 2 from having sex.
Am I saying you should cockblock your own self?
Most definitely.
This is emotionally powerful and put her at ease and want to have sex…almost like how women want what they can’t have, and this makes you seen different…but of course, you’re going against this to make her want to have sex.
This is ultimately handling women’s objections by addressing them.
Going Back To A Woman’s Place
First, figure out the logistics…does she actually have a place, live with roommates or parents, etc.
Once you determined it’s possible, the best way to do this is and the only reason to go back to her place should be…
To prolong the fun by continuing the great companies you guys already provide for each other.
That’s how it should seen on the surface.
The way I go about going back to a woman’s place is to use the excuse, “Let’s have an afterparty.” This “afterparty excuse” has had the highest success rate for women to allow me to go back to their place.
But, listen now, this is important…
You have to instill a “demand“…to make it sound like you’re not going to her place just like that without any reason.
What do I mean?
When women invite me over, I will usually instill a demand like, “Do you have any booze or food?” but the true is…I could care less about the booze or food. This is just a way to lower the possibility in her head I’m just heading over there to have sex with her.
So say to a woman, “Lets have an afterparty,” (or something along that line to “prolong the fun with each of your great company”)…
Then add, “Do you have any booze (or something, something, whatever)?”
If she doesn’t have any of those demands…then “Let’s grab some!”
Now in the best case scenario, women will actually flat-out invite you to come over, but you still have to play your cards right with the seduction.
Now Seduce Her
When you’re over at her place, ask her if you can crash there. Say it innocently like, “Ah I can crash on the couch?” This increase the chance of her approving.
If she doesn’t approve first, “Ok, how about can I crash in the bathtub?”…and keep joking about it.
Once she approves, say “Ok, I’m going to crash here on this…unless you want to cuddle. I make an excellent cuddler.”
Here is where it gets tricky…
You have to be sure she feels comfortable and at eased. If you feel she is getting nervous…
Add in a disqualifier, “But I’m not having sex with you;” however, if you feel she is extremely attracted to you and wants it, you don’t need to instill this disqualifier to neutralize her anti-slut defense.
Once you’re in bed together just slowly escalate the touching, from rubbing her arms and breathing down her neck. This is the best way to turn her on and initiates the making-out. Then you go down her breasts if she doesn’t pull back. Go down her legs now and rub her turning her on more. Now if she doesn’t pull back…you’re clear to go to undressing her.
Note during this process, her anti-slut defense might kick in, and she will initiate a “need to stop.” Agree with her, but continue.
For example, she says, “We should stop. We shouldn’t be doing this.”
You just say, “Yes, you’re right, we shouldn’t be doing this…I’m being so bad right now,” and continue…making it appear you’re the one seducing her, and you’re the one to take the blame and being the bad one here, while she is the innocent good girl.
She will either continue or pull back. If she pulls back, you keep agreeing with her and continue.
However, if she really commands you to stop with “No”…you need to stop. Don’t want any drama.
When this happens, just act normal and cool like no big deal, like a gentleman. Never ever get mad or upset is the most important thing.
Then you 2 cuddle again and see how things go. If she becomes more receptive, then continue the sexual escalation to turn her on. 1-step back, 2-steps forward.
Be persistent and keep the sexual vibe and momentum going. She usually will give in because her libido and sex-drive are all ingrained in the preemptive reptilian brain of our species, out of our control…that it’s an subconscious urge we all want and crave, and this will override any sense of logic.
After that…make sure you have a condom ready to put on your manlyhood.
One last piece of warning like brothers…
BEWARE OF THE TROJAN!
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