Now why do we need to learn how to be social?
Well, a long time ago back to our own ancestral days, we lived interdependently in colonies and tribes. We needed this tribe to survive, otherwise if you take one member out…he or she would die without being to survive solely in those times. It was just very basic primitive social behaviors.
We were like machines. The men would hunt and protect the tribe while the women would take care and nourish the younglings.
Pretty much, it was the same type of social behaviors everyday, nothing fancy and sophisticated social skills were required. They do the same things throughout the day, everyday, and feel and think about the same things…like robots.
It was just basically hanging around with your family 24/7/365…and to this day when you hang out with your family, does it take that much effort to interact with them?
No, you’re most relaxed and requires the least amount of social skills effort.
However, as society evolved…human behaviors started to get sophisticated; no longer were we acting on the simple, same old day-to-day behavior, but different human emotions emerged in us that caused us to act in more complex ways.
We started to converse more with outsiders…no longer just people within our tribe but those from many different tribes.
And fast-forward to today…
The world has become very global and diverse, requiring much more advanced social skills and will continue to require more sophisticated social skills to strive in today’s society.
We are NOT used to dealing with these many people and having varieties of relationships and different societies running into each other, so now we have to have ways of dealing with this and harness our social powers.
No longer those with the strongest, brute physical-force have the power, but those who have the most social savviness do.
We are living in a social society and to achieve what we want, we have to be socially aware and skilled to maneuver successfully ahead, unlike our ancestors who just used brute force to take what they wanted.
Social intelligence is a must!
Now for meeting women…
We can’t bash them on the head with our clubs and drag women by their hair to our caves. The laws and modern society do not tolerate and punish these outdated barbaric behaviors in our more civilized world.
Today, for most guys in meeting women, we have to groom ourselves, makes ourselves look good, go out, approach them, talk to them, get them attractive to us, get their number (if we can’t seduce them), get them on the phone, make them meet up with us, talk with them again, get them attractive again, and then try to seduce them to make them our girlfriend.
That’s a lot of work don’t you think in courting women, unlike our ancestors who just cut to the chase?
The truth is…we are becoming more of a super society and more interconnected with each other, and this will continue to happen and even faster as the populations increase exponentially.
So we have to evolved into sharp social-being, and we can meet people that can add values to our life enriching it for the betterment.
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