Category Archives: Inner Game

Shyness is a Learned Behavior?

Shyness is a Learned Behavior?

What is shyness?  Does shyness exist? In my opinion, there is really no such thing as shyness.  Shyness is just an explanation to why you are and excuse to prevent you from socializing with others, because you are not socially skilled, and thus you tell yourself you are shy. For people who are shy, IRead More

The Myth about Confidence – How to truly Build Confidence?

The Myth about Confidence – How to truly Build Confidence?

There has been a lot of misconceptions about confidence and that it is the end-all-be-all ingredient to getting girls. Now I am going to say something a little out there, confidence alone is just not enough. There is a difference between acting confident (“faking it til you make it” as we like to call it)Read More

Should you “Just be Yourself”?

Should you “Just be Yourself”?

I get a lot of questions from people asking about… “Why do I have to go through all of this?” “Why do I have to learn all of this?” “Why not just be yourself?” Ah, yeah, we have all heard that one before. “Just be yourself and you will get the girl!” Now the problemRead More

For Those of Us Who Didn’t have the Social Skills Growing Up

For Those of Us Who Didn’t have the Social Skills Growing Up

I thought I post this because this is something I could really relate to back in college and for many of you who didn’t have the social skills when needed the most to strive in those social situations developed at an early point of your life.  It has a lot of great points about thoseRead More

Having a Strong Identity is Just NOT Enough

Having a Strong Identity is Just NOT Enough

Today, there is something I want to address that is holding a lot of guys back from improving this area of their life. There are a lot of guys I know who aren’t good with women, and they make the excuse saying, “I don’t have a strong identity.” For me, I don’t just limit myselfRead More

Playing this Social Game Can Hurt

What is game?  Game is a metaphor we used in the Seduction Community to desensitize or objectify what we experience out in the field so we won’t take it personally. And I got to tell you, it can hurt. There will be nights when you will feel more pain having gone out than if youRead More

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