Don’t you wish everything you bring up to a woman, she agrees to without turning you down?
And remember the last time you approached a woman and instantly got the in-your-face BUG-OFF?
“Man, rejections suck, don’t they?”
Now before you start accusing her of being some kind of bitch (which she is NOT by the way but only a bitch shield) out of protecting your ego from being bruised, think about what goes on through a woman’s mind when you approach her.
Here she is…being approached by a stranger who is most likely only sexually interested in getting into her pants.
If you’re a good-looking guy, and she is horny out to get laid…more power to you; however, most likely she will have her defense up and objections will rise.
To disarm these objections, you have to use a disqualifier “to disqualify yourself from being (at first) somebody hitting on her until SHE is already attracted and interested in you.”
Indeed, it’s pity for a woman to instantly blow guys off the second an interaction is initiated without ever having a chance to get her attracted and interested.
The obvious question and thing in a woman’s mind is “Oh, he’s only interested in getting into my pants.”
What do you do?
Use what women frequently say to disqualify YOU from continuing to hit on her.
Can you guess what that is?
“I have a boyfriend.”
Yikes! Most guys would deflect from pursing her and walk away, but you just have to brush that off and didn’t’ bother you like, “Oh cool, introduce me to him,” and meet whoever this guy is regardless if he’s actually her boyfriend or not, and befriend him to let him know you’re a cool non-threatening.
My Girlfriend Disqualifier
Now whether that boyfriend claim is legit…use what I called a “My Girlfriend Disqualifier.”
Say something like, “Oh MY GIRLFRIEND…(with something such as) ‘was like this’/’did that’/’hated me when I did that’ (all in the past-tense).”
For Examples:
“My girlfriend was into that stuff.”
“My girlfriend did fine arts in college.”
“My girlfriend hated me for going out.”
Though you’re not necessarily saying you have a girlfriend, you said it in the past-tense…implying you’re currently DO have a girlfriend.
Why should you do this in the past-tense?
Because for obvious reasons, you don’t want to lie when you actually don’t have a girlfriend, and when she does ask you about what you said previously about your girlfriend…you can say that was only your ex when you said “your girlfriend did all those things” in the past-tense.
This disqualifies you from being somebody hitting on her and disarm any guy she’s with.
Here’s the My Girlfriend Disqualifier Formula by saying…
“MY GIRLFRIEND” + “Whatever past-tense things she did” = Disqualifies you as somebody looking to get into the woman’s pants.
You do this so you can lower and disarm her defense. Once that is cleared, she will be relaxed and comfortable around your presence…and generating attraction within her for you will be possible.
This is just one way of disqualifying yourself when you approach women. There are other ways of doing this, but bringing up “MY GIRLFRIEND” just happens to be easy.
Don’t Over-Disqualify Yourself
Can you actually disqualify yourself to much?
This is an awkward story…
I had this incident with this one gal I really liked where I fell into the sister-and-brother zone.
Forget the friend zone! I fell into the drastic sister-and-brother zone, and I couldn’t get out of it.
How did this happen?
I met her, and I thought about disqualifying myself from hitting on her by saying she is my new sister, and I’m adopting her, hoping it would lower her guard and that she would forget it later. Unfortunately, she still remembered it, so to this day I still have the task of taking that image out of her head and totally revamp it with something new.
You don’t want to disqualify yourself too much to fall into the friend zone or worse.
Why now I just stick with the “My Girlfriend Disqualifier.”
Address Women’s Objections For Compliance
This is not only for approaching and meeting women, but also for getting them to comply to your requests, such as taking women home…you straight out say “We’re not going to have sex?” to address whatever her objections may be from complying with these requests.
In fact, I even had girls address these objections herself, “Don’t even think we’re going to have sex,” but I end up having sex with her anyway. But with you addressing it first will be lot more effective in getting compliance, rather than have her addressing it and you agreeing.
Now if you do use the “My Girlfriend Disqualifier” for getting women into bed, you’re going to have a tougher last-minute resistance the second she’s about to have sex with her anti-slut defense kicking in because…you’ll be a pig for cheating on your girlfriend; therefore, you need to address that was your ex-girlfriend you were referring to.
Always put yourself in a woman’s shoe (I know typical of them for having many) and think of possible objections she may have with the things you want to do and address the objection to avoid rejection and get compliance.
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