When was the last time you got laid?
If you want to start meeting and seducing more women, you’re going have to keep this important element of the game in mind…
If there is one important thing I learned since working on this area of my life is to never prematurely presume the game is over until you go all the way to home-base.
When you’re tying to get with a girl, don’t ever let the momentum die!
For example, here was a mistake I made before, so hopefully you will avoid it in the future.
I met this gorgeous blonde one night while sitting at the bar with a bunch of folks, and she walked in with this tall guy, which I didn’t think they were boyfriend and girlfriend but seem like friends at most. The guy came up to the bar first and ordered a drink, then the blonde came up, and I started interacting with her.
I pulled her in close with my arms around her waist while I was sitting at the bar and she was standing up. The social interaction was very light-hearted and flirty. I was being really touchy with her and physically escalating like rapid-fire without any resistance, and she even kissed me on the lip a couple times with me pushing her back, all while the guy was still there ordering their drinks.
Finally when the guy gave her the drink, I started talking to them both. We all had a friendly exchange. At first it wasn’t so obvious, but it became clear to me that the guy and the girl were not together, and were only friends, and might even have just met that night.
That’s when I took the interaction up a notch because I do have morals to never take a girl away from her boyfriend when they’re both out together.
I made sure the guy and I were like best friend already, and he even bought me a drink, and I reciprocated by buying him a drink. From there, it was just an automatic green light with this girl.
Now I know some of you just won’t care about the guy and will go in for the snatch. Not that it really matters, but having a girl’s guyfriend can either make or break you, and it’s better to have the guy helping you get with the girl.
I isolated the girl to the dance-floor, and she was really into it. Unfortunately, the bar was finally closing, and they were kicking us off the floor. I regrouped with my friends and some other folks I met that night, to head off to this after-party at one of their apartment near-by; and apparently, the guy that my girl was with already left without a ever trying to dragged her again from me…so naturally I took her with me to the after-party, and I was kino-ing her all the way to the apartment.
Once we got to the apartment, she needed to use the restroom, and she invited me into the bathroom and actually let me watch her pee…though there were other people waiting in line so I couldn’t do anything right there.
I sat on the couch with her and started touching her the entire time, maintaining a sexual-vibe. I decided to walk her home because she actually lived near-by, and she agreed and even requested that I crash the night at her place….DING! DING! Bingo! From there I thought I had her, and abruptly came to the conclusion that I was going to score with this girl that night…
And that was the mistake I made. Because I prematurely thought I had her, I quit putting in the effort and instead of keeping the sexual-vibe, like kissing while we were walking, it reverted to a normal interaction like very generic.
The interaction lost that sexual-momentum.
Fortunately, the apartment was very near-by, so it wasn’t that much of a rebound (at first anyway). The sexual-vibe was still there. I got into her bedroom, and when I was about to sexual escalate, she said she was hungry and wanted to make us both a peanut-butter and jelly sandwich.
(BIG, BIG MISTAKE!!!)
I didn’t really think about it at that time, but I should had declined and went straight to taking the sexual escalation all the way. I thought I really had this girl because the sexual-vibe was there, but that “peanut-butter-jelly-sandwich interrupted-period” disrupted that sexual-momentum. While she was making our sandwiches, I was watching TV in the living room, and when she came over as we sat their on the sofa, the sexual-vibe I preset to sex, was completely gone to the point of me being unable to bounce back.
While we were in bed together, I was trying to escalate, but her back was turned away from me the entire time, and she wouldn’t bulge.
So I thought to myself, “Ok no problem, I’ll try again in the morning”, but unfortunately, she woke me up first and told me I had to leave.
As we leaned in for the goodbye-hang, I went for a lip-kiss, but she tilted her head to the left to slide away from the lip for a cheek-kiss instead, and said to me, “It was nice meeting you”, without any implication of seeing each other again.
Reading between-the-lines here, when a girl says, “It was nice meeting you.” nonchalantly without any sort of future plan, it is just a polite way of saying, “Goodbye it was nice knowing you…BUT you don’t interest me enough to interact again.”…contrast to “Yeah, let’s meet up sometimes.”, “We should hang out.”
Did I beat myself over this…?
Absolutely not! I learned a very valuable lessen here and hope you can take away from this is…don’t prematurely assume that you’ve gotten the girl just because you have already done everything properly leading the way to a successful seduction, then letting that momentum die.
I walked with the girl home, and I didn’t keep the touching going, or took the sexual-vibe up more because I was overconfident it was already a guarantee seduction, and when I got to her place, I just had to agree to a “peanut-butter and jelly cockblock-sandwich”, and that really destroyed the sexual-momentum that was built up throughout the night.
You still have to maintain that all the way to sex no matter how things seem to be set-in-stone. Do not let it die by breaking that pattern, as I have to a peanut-butter jelly cockblock-sandwich.
From that day forward, I call the peanut-butter jelly sandwich as “the cockblock-sandwich.”
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