QUESTION:
Hello, I’m going to a college with very strict rules in California. However, the school is in proximity to USC and UCLA. How do I go about meeting the popular people on those campuses that could introduce me to hot girls?
MY RESPONSE:
Ah, yes college…the one place where the door opens to new opportunity and hot girls…
I have moved, coming out of high school with no friends, to a college without knowing anybody, and then moving to a brand new city without knowing anybody.
Doesn’t matter what your situation is.
In your case, I see it as a social networking thing you are going have to do.
Since you don’t go to their university and don’t know the people, here’s what I recommend you do.
Go to any social networking site, preferably Facebook and MySpace, and search for people who are in the USC and UCLA networks.
Go through the profiles and add people who might seem like popular guys who are getting the girls, usually these are the frat guys.
Keep in mind that a lot of them are not going to add you and will probably going to question you why you are adding them, especially when you have no mutual friends at first.
Just say something like you are going to transfer there next semester and want to be meet new people, and they seem cool.
Once they added you, start saying cool stuffs to them and sort of get to know them slowly, otherwise they might pick up that you have some sorts of agenda.
Ask them a question, like “How’s school over there? I’m planning on transferring next semester.”
Ask them when are they having a party at their house, and look up for the events they are hosting or attending.
And go on their campuses one weekend and bring some girls if you can, or pick them up on campuses and go in together.
Once you are in start meeting the brothers. Don’t think too much about partying, instead you are networking and meeting people; usually the brothers will be the ones are making sure everything is running and keeping the guests entertained. Talk with them and be willing to offer any assistance you can.
Here in your situation since you’re trying to befriend the guys there, meet some girls as well but don’t think about getting them; pickup some girls and introduce them to the frat brothers.
Even though they are part of a fraternity doesn’t mean they don’t have fear in picking up girls. Help the guys meet some girls, and if you happen to be really good at pickup, impress them with that, and be willing to offer the girls over to them. You are at their party remember.
Play the host and make sure everybody is having a good time, and you will be seem like a brother too there to the girls, and just ask the girls how they are doing and if they want more alcohol. This is the easiest way to meet them.
Stay there until the party is over, this is when there will be less people and usually it will be the brothers who will still be there. Be willing to help clean up or offer any assistance. They will notice you and remember you, and just talk with them. Let them know you are a cool guy, and tell them how awesome party that was, and be sure to get their contact information.
Remember you have to offer value and bring something to the table to them, or else you will just be another value-craving drunk guy crashing their parties trying to get their girls.
Ask them when the next party is and you will going to bring some girls, become a regular to them.
From there, you have gotten yourself some good connections that could introduce you to hot girls or their other cool friends who could introduce you to hot girls. Your social network for those schools will grow from here.
Not all the cool guys are in frats. There are a lot of other cool people in different activites. Do whatever fits your liking and personality.
This really sounds more like stalking than making friends, and showing this much enthusiasm towards these frat guys will most likely give off warning signals that you are gay. Not saying your advice won’t work, but it’s a very fine line between “Hey this guy’s pretty cool” and “Jerry, your facebook stalker’s still here…how do we get rid of him?”