Turn the Girl’s Obstacle Rejection back on Her

Here is a recent text-exchange I had with a girl who I haven’t seen in a couple months, and we eventually reconnected and went out together.

I thought I share this with you, just to show you how you want to always reframe any girls’ objection back on her.

This is the complete text-interaction.

Me: Hey, I was just thinking about you today.

Her: Who are you talking about?

Me: You!

Her: Okay

Me: You did something to me

Her: I don’t think so…

Me: Did you put some sort of spell on me?

Her: Hahaha…

Me: Oh I knew it!  You’re Trouble with a capital “T”!

Her: K! How is your weekend?

Me: You first! how’s life in Europe?

Her: I dunno. I stay in town…

Me: Sweet! We should hang out.  I miss you.

Her: Lets hang out when the weather gets warmer…

(Next day, I did this intentionally…)

Me: Hey lets hang out this weekend. The weather is actually very nice. It’s only 25 degrees since I know u love the cold!  We’ll go ice-skating holding hands.

Her: We will hang out when the weather gets warmer..u know I don’t like ice-skating…too cold!

Me: What’s the matter, can’t take the cold? I got plenty of body heat.

Her: I don’t want to be cold..

Me: Oh, so u can’t take the heat now?

Her: No

Me: Alrite knucklehead, you can’t take the heat or cold.  What are you?  From outerspace or something?

Her: Hahaha maybe we can just go see a movie..what do you think?

Me: Welcome to planet Earth! Ha, I knew it! So you are a tough cookie that can take the cold! I like that.  What made you change your mind?  (Notice here how I say I like that she is a tough cookie, if she still say she can’t handle the cold, then she would lose that validation.)

Her: Nothing!  (haha. smart girl.)

(Now here is where I push her after I pulled her in…)

Me: Nah, sorry maybe some other time. Lets wait til the weather does get warm.

Her: Cool

Me: …but can you promise something?

Her: What?

Me: …when I ask u 2 come out when the weather is lovely, you have to say “yes”.  No “if” “and” “or” “but”. Promise?  (this is a huge compliance-test)

Her: Ok

(2 days later…)

Her: Hey so when do I get to fulfill my promise?

Me: Tonite, when we go dancing, and you have to say yes because of your promise!

Her: Ok

Me: Meet me on the corner of 3rd and 11th @ 10

Her: Cool. See ya 😉

Notice how I reconnected with her and evaded her obstacle resistance.

Basically I’m the one to say we can‘t hang out because it is too cold, not her.

Do not be the one to be rejected by the girl, instead you should be the one to reject the girl.

Use the girl’s resistance back to your advantage to resist her…then pull her back.

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