Listen up fellows, want to get laid with a woman on the first date? Well, read on with some simple guides to keep in mind.
Dodging that Awkward Hug and the Undesired Doorstep Chat
Even though most men wouldn’t believe it, nearly all women plot their next move and reaction based on how a man introduces himself, particularly within the dating atmosphere.
Accordingly, it is crucial always to transmit constructive, casual vibes in order to keep the positive energy flowing in your favor.
Stay in Control Throughout the Date
Since human-beings are somewhat innately wired to be able to sense other’s emotions, be sure that you’re projecting the internal state you want the other person to feel. If not, your will will undoubtedly receive similar offbeat feedback.
Unnecessary restlessness and indecisiveness won’t make for an enjoyable evening or a good first impression. Therefore, it should go without saying it would be wise to have a game plan to how the night should be planned out and have a “plan b” if things aren’t going so swell.
Regardless, if you aren’t the planner, the point is to always keep your cool and control of the situation no matter what, and she will surely find a way to your freshly made bed.
Expensive and Lavish NOT the Best Option for First Encounter
Even though most people believe that first dates need to be extravagant, memorable and a perfect first impression in order to win their companion over, especially romantically speaking, go ahead and knock yourself over the head to disavow that belief.
It’s more important that the woman of your affection senses a chemical connection and realizes that you’re just trying to show off, but more importantly, the sexual chemistry, she will more than likely want to take it more physical from there.
Always opt to have a good time than spoiling the woman you don’t even know that well the first few times you meet up. In some cases, she could feel a sense of obligation, a need to repay you in a way in which will not feel comfortable getting in the way of simply having good time that will lead to the bedroom.
Doesn’t Have to Be Dinner and a Movie
Let’s put it this, “dinner and a movie” as first date are pretty generic nowadays, no, take that back, very cliché. Therefore, if your goal is to get physical by the end of the night, try a more public place with lots physical stimuli, like a carnival or some forms of recreation.
Go out for a night of bar hopping or to a nightclub to dance away initial tension or awkwardness. In that way, you can be sure to get in a few “accidental” caresses and maybe even a handful of passion-provoking pecks.
Physical Gestures Are a Must
Having said before human-beings are able to pick up on others’ body language and emotions, after you tried stealing the first kiss or quick caress, you’ll know right away which direction your date is going.
This is commonly known as sexual escalation.
If you date goes for it and is into it, you’ll undoubtedly be going back to yours or her place for more action. However, if a spark doesn’t shoot off while you’re trying to make a first move, sorry bud, but your choice for the night probably isn’t suitable for the long-term or late-night quick action.
Playful and Goofy Expose Authenticity
Demonstrating seriousness and commitment on the first rendezvous is a big “no.”
The goal is to get to know each other’s fun side, discover likes and dislikes and keep one another laughing the entire time.
“Laughter” is one of the essential ingredients to keep the dating setting whimsical and airy, and if a good time is had, it will keep feeling of fun leading the way for an intimate steamy night ahead.
In conclusion, always do your part and keep things in mind for a more successful first date laid. You got this!
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
SovietLover is a freelance writer based in United States who has researched several dating sites for women since 2007 and participated in the development of several dating events to share experiences and knowledge. He is a keen reader and article writer of our Hot and Sexy Sovietmate Marriage Agency (an online CIS dating site). When he has the time, he enjoys riding bicycle and swimming. He can speak and write English and Spanish languages.
Alright, so I agree with this whole piece, but really? Marketing with the intent to get laid? I don’t mean to sound hopelessly old fashioned here, but what ever happened to respecting the other person every inch as you’d want to be respected? How about talking to her, getting to know her? Seeing if you might just enjoy a life with her? Maybe making a list of things you don’t like in this person so you know what to find in the next… life is a lot more than getting laid, and posts like this make men look like pigs.
Kewl you should come up with that. Exleclent!