Here is something that has always puzzled me…
Kids are the best chick-magnets of women.
As little kids playing in the playground, you had no trouble attracting women because you had this childishness to you…and it was adorable to behold.
But as you got older, people (or society that is) tells you to grow up and become a mature man…and, not surprisingly, do you realize your natural ease with women fades?
I mean look at some of the successful wealthy people (like financial bankers for example). They’re very mature men and professional, but they’re miserable and terrible with women. They’re just success-object to women, the opposite equivalent of women being sex-object to men.
Hence, they’re provider, NOT lover to women.
Being childish is an attraction-component, and it’s one you can have. Like I have always said…my favorite ingredient for attracting women is playful-humor.
Now the question you might be asking is…
“But, but Gabriel…what about being all manly man? Girls dig that. They don’t want a boy. They want a man.”
Ah yes, the stereotypical accepted notion that being a true ultimate masculine man gets the girl.
I’m not saying to be a boy. I’m saying to accept and take some of those qualities of being a kid again, such as humor, playfulness, adorableness…contrast those with the stiffness of being like most adults.
Women want a man, but not the stale stiffness and boredom of a man.
What do your average adult men do?
They’re stiff and boring (especially the more professional they get) and work becomes their entire life and the only thing they talk about…hence, falling into the provider’s role and that’s it; but having some childish qualities contrast that, fulfilling the lover’s role for women.
As grownups, we can forget to let go and be fun to have a good time and be natural free-spirits because we have become so embracive of our rigid adulthood…while children are far better and have easier time interacting with the ladies than we men are.
Bring out your inner-childishness to make the lover/fun/exciting/adventurous part of being a man.
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Little kids are all natural pervert these days lol
It should come to no surprise kids can get away with the most stupid things adults can’t. It’s like anything small is cute to girls like a puppy, and kids are small so not sure how big grownup men will work by acting like a little kid. Might even be a turnoff to women. Definitely something to think about.