Category Archives: Social Skills

The Importance of Being Social

The Importance of Being Social

Now why do we need to learn how to be social? Well, a long time ago back to our own ancestral days, we lived interdependently in colonies and tribes. We needed this tribe to survive, otherwise if you take one member out…he or she would die without being to survive solely in those times. ItRead More

The Seduction Community Backfires

The Seduction Community Backfires

Have you ever really wondered why some people just get dating and meeting women the very first few times they learned this stuff and start getting immediate results, while others learned like forever and going out…but are still struggling? That’s because they are missing the most essential core component that makes pickup and meeting womenRead More

How to Magically Break Awkward Silence…and Never Run Out of Things to Say?

How to Magically Break Awkward Silence…and Never Run Out of Things to Say?

I want to talk about a concept I coin as “obviousation“. Don’t worry it’s not some lame old, impractical ideas that just sound totally cool, but you can’t do anything with it.  It’s extremely powerful and one of the most effective things you can know when social interacting, talking, conversing with women, and basically, withRead More

How to be Socially Savvy?

How to be Socially Savvy?

The dying question we all like to know…“What is the secret about socially savvy people that makes them exceptionally social, and how can we be like them?” Have you ever been puzzled by somebody who always have the right thing to say at the right time almost like they’re psychic anticipating every upcoming response? It’sRead More

How to be “Cool”?

How to be “Cool”?

When you are communicating with cool people, it is a whole new different channel than what you deal with your family or an everyday normal person. You see an everyday normal person just basically tells you what goes on in their life and day, plan and dry yet simple. Now a cool person would addRead More

Shyness is a Learned Behavior?

Shyness is a Learned Behavior?

What is shyness?  Does shyness exist? In my opinion, there is really no such thing as shyness.  Shyness is just an explanation to why you are and excuse to prevent you from socializing with others, because you are not socially skilled, and thus you tell yourself you are shy. For people who are shy, IRead More

Your Social Skills is much more Important than Pickup Skills!

Your Social Skills is much more Important than Pickup Skills!

I admit the reason why when I first started learning this whole seduction, dating, and pickup stuffs that I was having a difficult time than most people and hardly getting any progress was because I was missing the very foundation of social dynamics. None of them ever addressed on the basic, the core of itRead More

Social Calibration is the Ultimate Key to Social Skills Mastery

Social Calibration is the Ultimate Key to Social Skills Mastery

In my book the Art of Social Natural, I talked about how a social natural is “an efficient social calibrator,” meaning he has lots of social experiences under his belt and with those experiences, make him an extremely efficient socializer, almost like he has a sixth-sense for social dynamic interaction to perceive other people’s emotionsRead More

How to Become Your Most Social-Self?

How to Become Your Most Social-Self?

Are you not having the social life you want and find that people always ignore you and never call you up on the weekend to hang out, or are you naturally very shy and reserved and want to just get out of your anti-social shell? Here is a really great article from my friend ArunRead More

For Those of Us Who Didn’t have the Social Skills Growing Up

For Those of Us Who Didn’t have the Social Skills Growing Up

I thought I post this because this is something I could really relate to back in college and for many of you who didn’t have the social skills when needed the most to strive in those social situations developed at an early point of your life.  It has a lot of great points about thoseRead More

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