Don’t you just hate it when you know somebody who you think you have a real relationship with, but turns out they’re just using you? What is having a real relationship? Well, in every form of relationship, whether that is having a girlfriend, friends or even anybody, there has to be some exchange of value.… Read More
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You Got Flakes?!
No, no, no, I’m not taking about the little white stuffs in your hair or the architectural structure of a beautiful tiny frozen water molecule under a microscope. So there you see an absolutely gorgeous, stunning girl right in front of you at 12 o’clock. BAM! You approach her. You go in with the confidence… Read More
Social Dynamics is a Social Performance
Social interaction is like performing in a movie scene. You think of your environment you are in as your movie scene and you perform in it. But what if you are in an unfamiliar situation and don’t know how to perform socially (script-less shall we say)? Have you ever wondered why life in movies is… Read More
You’re Stupid/Pathetic/a Sissy/a Loser! – The Art of Conversational-Combat Jujitsu
(WARNING: Reader Discretion is Advised. Strong Inappropriate Offensive Languages in this Article. Read at your own Risk.) Ok, so you’re out having a good time, meeting lots of girls, having fun, your energy is pumped, your state is so high, you never feel more alive…and then all of a sudden some jerk comes up to… Read More
How to Instantly and Easily “Get into State” and Feel Indestructible when Meeting Women…Right Now?
Have you ever felt like when you were doing something that you just didn’t know how, but you just felt so immensely focused and effortlessly at eased without forcing yourself? That is what we called “being in state“. You are almost unconscious, like you no longer feel you are there in your immediate surrounding and… Read More
Shyness is a Learned Behavior?
What is shyness? Does shyness exist? In my opinion, there is really no such thing as shyness. Shyness is just an explanation to why you are and excuse to prevent you from socializing with others, because you are not socially skilled, and thus you tell yourself you are shy. For people who are shy, I… Read More
Your Social Skills is much more Important than Pickup Skills!
I admit the reason why when I first started learning this whole seduction, dating, and pickup stuffs that I was having a difficult time than most people and hardly getting any progress was because I was missing the very foundation of social dynamics. None of them ever addressed on the basic, the core of it… Read More
The Myth about Confidence – How to truly Build Confidence?
There has been a lot of misconceptions about confidence and that it is the end-all-be-all ingredient to getting girls. Now I am going to say something a little out there, confidence alone is just not enough. There is a difference between acting confident (“faking it til you make it” as we like to call it)… Read More
Social Calibration is the Ultimate Key to Social Skills Mastery
In my book the Art of Social Natural, I talked about how a social natural is “an efficient social calibrator,” meaning he has lots of social experiences under his belt and with those experiences, make him an extremely efficient socializer, almost like he has a sixth-sense for social dynamic interaction to perceive other people’s emotions… Read More
Should you “Just be Yourself”?
I get a lot of questions from people asking about… “Why do I have to go through all of this?” “Why do I have to learn all of this?” “Why not just be yourself?” Ah, yeah, we have all heard that one before. “Just be yourself and you will get the girl!” Now the problem… Read More
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