Category Archives: Confidence & Mindset

The BIGGEST Dating Learning Trap

The BIGGEST Dating Learning Trap

Traditional dating advices for men have been engraved on the idea that in order for a man to attract a woman, he has to be tall, handsome, wealthy, and well-endowed. BUT…the NEW conventional dating advices for men are that he just has to be confident, dominant, funny, indifferent to what other people think, and have strong self-beliefsRead More

How to Instantly and Easily “Get into State” and Feel Indestructible when Meeting Women…Right Now?

How to Instantly and Easily “Get into State” and Feel Indestructible when Meeting Women…Right Now?

Have you ever felt like when you were doing something that you just didn’t know how, but you just felt so immensely focused and effortlessly at eased without forcing yourself? That is what we called “being in state“.  You are almost unconscious, like you no longer feel you are there in your immediate surrounding andRead More

Shyness is a Learned Behavior?

Shyness is a Learned Behavior?

What is shyness?  Does shyness exist? In my opinion, there is really no such thing as shyness.  Shyness is just an explanation to why you are and excuse to prevent you from socializing with others, because you are not socially skilled, and thus you tell yourself you are shy. For people who are shy, IRead More

The Myth about Confidence – How to truly Build Confidence?

The Myth about Confidence – How to truly Build Confidence?

There has been a lot of misconceptions about confidence and that it is the end-all-be-all ingredient to getting girls. Now I am going to say something a little out there, confidence alone is just not enough. There is a difference between acting confident (“faking it til you make it” as we like to call it)Read More

Should you “Just be Yourself”?

Should you “Just be Yourself”?

I get a lot of questions from people asking about… “Why do I have to go through all of this?” “Why do I have to learn all of this?” “Why not just be yourself?” Ah, yeah, we have all heard that one before. “Just be yourself and you will get the girl!” Now the problemRead More

Having a Strong Identity is Just NOT Enough

Having a Strong Identity is Just NOT Enough

Today, there is something I want to address that is holding a lot of guys back from improving this area of their life. There are a lot of guys I know who aren’t good with women, and they make the excuse saying, “I don’t have a strong identity.” For me, I don’t just limit myselfRead More

Playing this Social Game Can Hurt

What is game?  Game is a metaphor we used in the Seduction Community to desensitize or objectify what we experience out in the field so we won’t take it personally. And I got to tell you, it can hurt. There will be nights when you will feel more pain having gone out than if youRead More

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