- Do you find yourself to be NOT really a social guy that can meet women and get them attracted to you?
- Do you always find yourself being a loner who doesn’t have much friends and, more or less, women in your life? And you are having difficulty expanding your social circle and feel as though your dating life is suffering because you don’t have a social circle?
- Do you find yourself socially awkward in social situations and that when you socialize out in social gatherings with girls or guys, they get repulsed by you?
- Do you find that your social skill is not where it should be to attract and date those women you want and meet those cool people you want to meet?
- Are you always feeling lonely and never have anything to do on the weekend nor receive any call or get invited on the weekend, and get this feeling of being left out?
- Do you find it hard to go out meeting people because you don’t have any friends and are afraid to go out by yourself and of what other people will think of you? And when you do go out and see other people enjoying their night and having the fun and excitement you so deeply crave, you envy them and wonder why you can’t be a part of something like that?
- Do you always meet a lot of people but after that, you don’t see them again or they never call you, and they never answer the phone when you call them?
- Do you find that you are watching your life pass you by because you are not getting the social fulfillment you want, and that it is too late?
Well, that was me…all the above, all the way!
It was utter torture. I was depressed and didn’t bother leaving the house, until I snapped and hit a threshold that enough was enough, and didn’t care anymore and just went out by myself without any goal in mind but to just get out of the house.
Man was I embarrassingly horrible in social gatherings in every possible way from being creepy to almost getting arrested, but I learned and practiced my social skills and calibrated them.
However, in my struggle my lucky break came when I met these guys who were not only good with women but people in general. They were naturally social with everybody, hence social natural.
They took me under their wings and I learned from them and went out and experimented, and that was when I really notice a difference.
There was something about their behavior that they were unconsciously aware of, as most people who are good at something don’t really know how to explain how they are doing, they just do it naturally without thinking, but I did and consciously picked it up.
Gradually, I started to perform socially at their high-octane social level and the friends within the social natural’s social circle, who first questioned why even let, me, this loser socially awkward guy to hang out with them, started to like me and became close buddies.
It had long since been a hard road for me now. Even though I have improved dramatically in my social and dating life, life is a never-ending continuous learning-process.
Truth be told, I’m still just a regular guy who wants nothing more to do than to chill on the beach surf all day, have a beer with good friends and meet new people, have as much fun as possible and live life to the fullest to make up for all those lost times I didn’t when I was younger to get rid of those regrets of missed opportunities…and of course, meet some ladies ;); but at the same time, there is nothing more rewarding than running this site just for you, and to get a sense of satisfaction for doing it, especially when people tell me how much they love it and has helped them.
I don’t claim I have all the answers, in fact, nobody does, and you should be wary of those who boast they do.
Learning how to be successful socially and in dating, relationship, and any other social dynamics interaction is a tricky thing as not everybody is the same, and I don’t know your unique situation, background, personality, where you have been, what your experiences are, etc., but there are universal strategies and guidelines.
I would like for you to take everything you read with an open mind and try it out for yourself and see how it works for you.
Social experiment and calibrate, and good luck and I wish you the best.
Gabriel Angelo
