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Should You be Fun and Energetic, OR Calm and Relaxed…when Talking to Women?

Should You be Fun and Energetic, OR Calm and Relaxed…when Talking to Women?

QUESTION: “Thanks for emailing me back Gabriel. Well one of the social skills I am trying to learn is tone of voice. I have read some books that say to talk to women in a more calm and relaxed tone of voice so it doesn’t seem like you are being too desperate and needy inRead More

A Powerful, Simple Way to Keep Conversations Going with Women

A Powerful, Simple Way to Keep Conversations Going with Women

QUESTION: “Hey Gabe, thnx for doing this… i really dont know how to keep a conversation going when i meet girls in a bar.. what do i say after i introduced myself and asked her how her night is going.. thnx” MY RESPONSE: Not knowing how to keep a conversation going after you introduced yourselfRead More

Your Social Skills is much more Important than Pickup Skills!

Your Social Skills is much more Important than Pickup Skills!

I admit the reason why when I first started learning this whole seduction, dating, and pickup stuffs that I was having a difficult time than most people and hardly getting any progress was because I was missing the very foundation of social dynamics. None of them ever addressed on the basic, the core of itRead More

The Myth about Confidence – How to truly Build Confidence?

The Myth about Confidence – How to truly Build Confidence?

There has been a lot of misconceptions about confidence and that it is the end-all-be-all ingredient to getting girls. Now I am going to say something a little out there, confidence alone is just not enough. There is a difference between acting confident (“faking it til you make it” as we like to call it)Read More

Social Calibration is the Ultimate Key to Social Skills Mastery

Social Calibration is the Ultimate Key to Social Skills Mastery

In my book the Art of Social Natural, I talked about how a social natural is “an efficient social calibrator,” meaning he has lots of social experiences under his belt and with those experiences, make him an extremely efficient socializer, almost like he has a sixth-sense for social dynamic interaction to perceive other people’s emotionsRead More

Independence Day 2010

Independence Day 2010

I’m just going to keep this short and say Happy July 4 everybody! Honestly, it felt like it was only yesterday was last year July 4, and I said that I was going to make up for it this year…and you can bet your girl I will! 😉 I’m going with one of my girlsRead More

Should you “Just be Yourself”?

Should you “Just be Yourself”?

I get a lot of questions from people asking about… “Why do I have to go through all of this?” “Why do I have to learn all of this?” “Why not just be yourself?” Ah, yeah, we have all heard that one before. “Just be yourself and you will get the girl!” Now the problemRead More

Use the “F.A.” to Get Anybody to do Whatever you Want Anytime, Every Time

Use the “F.A.” to Get Anybody to do Whatever you Want Anytime, Every Time

In my last article I talked about “the Pickup Artist loophole“ and briefly introduced you to the FA, Friendly Assertiveness. Now I’m going to elaborate on it so you can get almost anybody to do whatever you ask in a friendly way, by being friendly assertive I like to call it, instead of dominantly aggressive.Read More

The Controversial Pickup Artist (PUA) Loophole

The Controversial Pickup Artist (PUA) Loophole

Some of the so-called “Pickup Artists” (or PUAs) out there who are good with women are not always the sort of people others would want to be friends and deal with. What I mean by this is that they exhibit a lot of anti-social behaviors, such as a lot of ego-clashing and always trying toRead More

How to Become Your Most Social-Self?

How to Become Your Most Social-Self?

Are you not having the social life you want and find that people always ignore you and never call you up on the weekend to hang out, or are you naturally very shy and reserved and want to just get out of your anti-social shell? Here is a really great article from my friend ArunRead More

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