Welcome. Yesterday, we talked about how got into “how to use your confidence with women.”
If you missed it, here it is:
How to Use Confidence with Women? – Part 1
Today we are going to conclude that with Part 2.
“Flirting” was one of the things mentioned on how you can actually convey your confidence with women to attract them.
Hopefully, you have at least gone out and done that.
Now first we’re going expand upon that, then show you more stuffs you can do to show your confidence with women.
The Topic of Discussion Approach to Getting a First Date
When you’re flirting with a woman once you’ve gotten to know her a little better, then politely let her know that you want to see her again.
Yes, you’re being a gentlemen but with confidence. The difference between this and being a nice-guy, is that the latter lacks confidence and supplicates out of weakness. Confident men does it from a place of strength, but never rude.
Bring up a movie topic or an event that you know is coming up soon. When she responds, invite her to go with you.
If you’re talking about great restaurants, coffee shops or art exhibits, you now have your socially acceptable opportunity that is perfect for securing a time to get together again.
When she agrees, offer to exchange telephone numbers or e-mail addresses. Now you’ve gotten her contact information, and she has yours as well. All you have to do is just follow up, keep doing what you have been doing, and don’t screw it up.
Confident Men are Leaders
Women want men to lead the way in a relationship, and they often wait for the man to make the first move.
Many confident men do not show it in this way because they may believe that they are being pushy.
Would you rather be pushy or a pussy?
There are ways to lead without appearing to be pushy or overbearing. Let’s call it gentle guidance.
Your first date is a chance to get to know her even better to find out she is someone you may want to pursue a relationship with.
Lead the conversation by asking questions to get her to share information about herself. Women love to talk about themselves.
Use the Gentle Guidance Technique with Women
When you are walking with a woman you have interest in, show that you’re confident to express interest in her by using one of these two techniques.
Place your hand on the small of her back as you are walking, or gently guide her by taking her elbow in your hand.
These two simple, yet powerful gestures have a tremendous impact upon women. It shows your interest in her and your ability to be a confident leader.
Gentle Guidance Exercise: Practice using the gentle guidance exercise with different variations as the relationship progresses to deeper stages. You could start moving your hand further up her arm and lower down her back to signal romantic interest. Wait for her response and when she follows suit, progress towards intimacy. Gentle guidance will take you all the way to the bedroom and beyond into the depth of relationship that you desire to have with her.
Only the Tip of the Iceberg
These are the steps and techniques men who are confident do to women to get into the types of relationships they desire to have.
By showing your confidence towards women, you step into your role as the natural leader, and she will follow suit with her feminine role as the lady who wants to be led.
These are the ways that confident men attract, meet and develop relationships with women.
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