If you’re thinking “virginity” as something sexual, as the word as has come to be associated it…
Let’s purify that dirty DIRTY mind of yours, like a priest washing away your sins.
Virginity can be anything that is new that you haven’t experienced before.
Guys who want to get better with women are so focused on the wrong thing of TRYING to sleep with women, like a virgin trying desperately so hard to lose his virginity by focusing solely into getting into every woman’s pants he encounters.
As a result, comes off as creepy to every woman and no wonder why he doesn’t get laid then become this endless continuous cycle, with him sinking lowering into desperation and depression.
Instead, he should be focusing on himself to be a person women want to sleep with by creating an attractive identity.
Why the “just be yourself” advice is the worst advice I hear to give to anybody who’s in a miserable situation they don’t want to be in…only to keep them there covering it up with a cloak of feel-goodness without ever addressing the truth core of the issue.
If you aren’t’ getting laid, improve yourself. Work on making your weakness into your greatest strength.
Lose as many “virginities to life” as possible.
Give yourself more exposure to things you never thought you would get involved in to create multiple identities for yourself.
For myself, I’ve lost my virginities to acting, surfing, and DJing so have established identities as an actor, surfer, and DJ so I’m constantly meeting women within each of these realm revolving my lifestyle and am now getting laid more than before when I was constantly only wanting to get laid…without focusing on myself first.
Think why it’s a struggle for a virgin trying to get laid once, than a non-virgin to get laid regularly.
The more virginities you lose to the world, the more easier it becomes to lose more, as a snowball-effect, with each broadening reality making the things that used to pose as challenge trivial in comparison.
Women come hand-in-hand once you create a lifestyle of your own that isn’t all about getting laid.
Notice how rockstars aren’t even focused about getting laid but only on their craft and lifestyle…but women are always gravitate towards them left-and-right like moths to a flame.
You only have this one life to live. Don’t waste it solely focusing on getting laid, especially if you’re a virgin.
In fact, if you are a virgin who has never gotten laid before, what are you still doing on the internet?
You’re not going to get laid sitting behind the computer studying how to be better with women.
Actually, if you are that desperate to lose your virginity with searching the internet and being here on this page…then you’re better off to spend time on some porno sites and sign up for some adult sex dating sites. 😉
Or even better…
Go out there lose as many virginities as possible, and your sexual virginity will be one of many to follow.
And guess what today is?
It is Friday night, so you have chance to go out and get laid and lose as many cherries as possible without losing your marbles.
There’s nothing wrong being a virgin. The pressure to not be it to fit in is pathetic.
The more virginities you lose as you put it, the more calm and desperate I am. I believe it’s an anticipation to get things off your chest you want to do in life that why.
At first I thought this was going to be a joke then now I see what you mean. I agree losing as much virginities as possible to get the most out of life.