What is the number-one quality all women look for in a man?
I’ll give you a hint: it starts with a “C.”
“No, not cock! You’ve been watching too much porno!”
CONFIDENCE (…then, maybe, cock).
Women have been attracted to confident men since the beginning of time.
You may notice that the men who have their calendars full of dates or are in a happy and committed relationship are the ones who always have this aura of confidence around women. They are more successful in attracting, meeting, dating and establishing a relationship than men who do not.
Pity, right? But fear not my fellow men!
We’ll go in depth to point out the hard and fast facts on how to present your confidence to women with special attention to important details for the best techniques for getting women and keeping them.
Even better, there are also exercises that will help you improve your skills in showing your confidence to women.
Display Yourself to Attract and Meet Women
When you see a woman you want to meet, it’s time to roll into action.
You already know who you are and the attitude that strongly influences women…is a man who shows no fear. Rejection is always a possibility but if it happens, it wasn’t meant to be.
You see it, you want it, and then go for it.
But first things are first. Confidence that is easy on the arrogance, goes much further than the bull in a china shop approach.
Place yourself in a strategic position so the woman you are eying can see you clearly. It’s helpful to scout a little to make sure she isn’t with another man or wearing a wedding ring.
When you’re fairly sure that she’s single look her in the eye and smile when she gazes at you. Hold her gaze for a moment and then look away.
She may approach you first. If she doesn’t, keep yourself in close proximity to her without appearing as a stalker. When you see an opening then strike up a conversation with her, even if it’s about the weather.
Use your charming and confident smile. Ask leading questions that are easy for her to follow because women look to men for leadership.
Exercises on Strategic Placement
Go to a variety of different public settings. Practice placing yourself strategically in front of specific women that you see.
Use the techniques described and keep track of how many women come up to you and begin a conversation. You are using this process to accomplish two things…
First is to build your skills, and second is to start meeting potential girlfriends or partners who may be compatible.
Not all will go swell, so it’s good to meet plenty.
The practice will give you more finesse and polish when it really counts than instant score.
Master your Flirting Skills
Flirting is the universal language between men and women. It signals interest in an appropriate way for both parties.
Yet confidence without finesse can be a turn-off, so it’s good to stick with the rules of the dating game whenever possible.
Once you’ve met, make small-talk in a flirty way that lets her know you have definite intentions towards her. Don’t scare her off by taking it too far, just go with the flow of the situation without pushing too hard.
There is a difference between confidence and arrogance. She has feelings, values and her personal space that must be respected.
Initial flirting should be used to open up more comfortable conversation so that the two of you become more at ease with one another and get to know each other a little better. It’s a great ice breaker.
Flirting is a learned skill and everyone has their own way of doing it. Nevertheless, it is important. If it’s something you’re not used to doing…then it’s time to start practicing.
Exercises On Flirting: Practice your flirting skills with women who strike up a conversation with you. Try to extend your flirty conversation for 5 minutes or more. The more you do it the more effortless it becomes.
Confident men flirt naturally without having to think about how it’s done. It just takes practice for anyone.
Now go out and flirt!
And this concludes today. Hope you enjoy it!
Tomorrow, we will get into Part 2 on how to use confidence with women.
If you can’t wait, I have a new book that will show you how to do all this plus much, much more…
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