We all need to put our best foot forward when comes to relationship.
This either takes more or less effort according to our personality, the level of intimacy we have with our partner, how well we understand one another, and how much we strive to be understood.
They all add up to the intensity of our desires and our ability to express them effectively.
Be Subtle
Sometimes words are not necessary. You might give a sharp or tender look, and it can be much more eloquent than an verbal phrase. For instance, eye contact and touch are indeed very helpful when you wish to communicate something, a little embarrassing.
Try throwing out non-verbal hints that is inviting to your partner, then approach with a show of a romantic attitude that she can understand. Take the lead and never fear to look too impulsive. Let whatever lover instinct of yours flow.
Be Honest
Always be true to your intentions and be upfront about what you want. If you want to increase your intimate times together, have sex more often, incorporate some freakish techniques in the bedroom, or try out some naughty fantasy of yours, all you’ve got to do is express that openly.
Don’t ever feel the need to hide your feelings out of what you want out of fear of judgment by your partner; after all, isn’t that the reason why you two are together because both you don’t judge and love each other for who you are?
Be Blunt
Have a blunt approach will help you develop confidence and be more active when it comes to love and romance.
Remember it takes two to tango, but one of you must always make the first move. You may eventually find that one of your contribution to the relationship was all you two needed to lead some more exciting and thrilling life.
Promptly Show How You Feel
Some partners actually need to see that something is wrong to make a change.
If you are unsatisfied and unhappy with your relationship, be willing to show it instead of hiding behind in your misery!
The more instantaneous you are in doing so, the better the relationship will be better off. Work together to make your relationship as ideal as you both like it to be.
Listen to Her
Always be open to your partner and receptive to their requests.
Relationship always profits from negotiation. By understanding and showing that you are all in favor of what she needs will take the relationship a long way, provided that your needs are given attention to as well.
Focus on Her
A frequent mistake made in relationship is to refer to friends on how to deal with a certain issue. Be careful!
Being a couple in a precious union should be nurtured by addressing what’s within to each other to obtain a common goal, while taking all necessary changes to improve the quality of your relationship, as well as to take it to the next level of endless hot night as you two want.
Flirt
Put your desires into words and do not blush at the thought of talking dirty. Send highly sexual-charged messages to her at times.
When you two are together, your body language can support these intentions and indicate how excited you are. Include little touches of sexual gesture throughout the day to keep her bound and dying for you.
Never be too flirtatious when intimacy is healthy and strong.
Simple Conversation
Engage in regular conversation connected to what you both enjoy and find pleasure in, or talk for no reason regardless how mundane the topic is.
Yet such serendipity may not flow effortless at the beginning, but eventually you will get to the point where you two can talk about anything and everything all day.
Let’s Dance
Always be inviting. Do not wait for suggestions or prompts.
Initiate fun activities that you two will enjoy and have a good time. For instance, music is always a good prop to create the perfect atmosphere for kisses, romance and love.
A Flood of Gifts
Who doesn’t like gifts? They are such a great way to keep you in her mind all day making her can’t wait to see you more.
Whether it is a little token of appreciation sent to her workplace unexpectedly, or a splendid gift carefully chosen for the perfect night out, you can easily make a powerful indulging romantic impression, and have them at your feet, willing to bestow all forms of love on you as a reward.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
I’m the Co-Founder and Webmaster of several dating sites including Chicks For Dating website (ChicksForDating.com). I started in the dating area in 2005, writing articles and press releases as freelancer and helping in the envisioning and development of international dating websites (most of them from Latin-America and Europe), believing that technology can help soul-mates to find real love and long-term relationships. I enjoy my free time reading technology articles, walking and hearing music dreaming in new dating projects.
