Do you ever want to hang out with the powerhouse social elites?
I have previously talked about the power of “outsourcing your social circle.”
Realize that it also has another benefit…
By letting other folks do the meeting and greeting for you and then coming back doing the reintroducing, will allow you to be on the same page with everybody they know…like an insider affiliation.
Why is this important and much more effective to meet people, especially those of high status?
It becomes a “Stamp of Approval” from having the other person introduced you to the other person or group; and instantly you’re no longer the outsider stranger.
It’s actually easier to meet people and make friends this way.
I can tell you…I have met many models, social elites, successful wealthy people, and high-end crowds this way.
Basically, these high-value status folks are always on guard about who they’re letting into their space…
However, by having JUST that one person who knows them introduce you to them…hence giving you that “Stamp of Approval“…will lower their guard because that person’s status and reputation will be on the line by introducing you to them; and since they are affiliated with you…you must be cool and somebody worth knowing.
Now in dating and meeting women, this way is so much easier than doing random cold-approaching, and I have met many hot women this way.
However, you have to be able to break away from your social familiarity and expand yourself to meet these folks first to get the ball rolling…something that not everybody can easily do, especially if you rely too much on going out with the same old buddies of yours or don’t have much experience going out at all for that matter.
Let me tell you a story…
It was almost a month away from September Fall-Fashion Week in New York. I went out by myself to a Pre-Fashion Week Show at a venue, and there…I randomly met this guy…who would later become one of my mentors and best friends. Turned out, he was a model/model-recruiter/actor/promoter/chef/painter.
Let me tell you, this guy was a modern renaissance-man. He knew a lot of people, and I must say…I was amazed by this guy and his level of social networks. He hanged out with the high-roller social elites…I mean models, rich people, actors, singers, socialites, and even celebrities. He knew a lot of folks.
He was, what you might call “a local celebrity” himself.
The reason why we clicked because I was a really chilled, authentic, reliable-guy while even though he knew a lot of people…most of them were fake; it was a fake-niceness all up for a show to maintain an image in that in-crowd world.
I was a breath of fresh-air and he introduced me to his world. It was definitely a changed-status of the social scene I was usually in, and I started going to these high-end venues and became part of the social elite circle.
Ironically, the funny thing is…
It’s easier to social interact with other people in these types of higher-end scenes than a normal scene, not to mention the women were hotter and higher quality…because everybody in it…has to be brought in by somebody else with connection to such high-end event/venues. They all have that “Stamp of Approval” among their own in-crowd, feeling almost like a family, where everybody can relax and have a good time…rather than having outsiders they have no clue what they’re about, resulting in guards being put up, especially for women and their so-called “bitch shield.”
Quality control at work, and that “Stamp of Approval” is your all-access key.
Just meeting this one person has changed my social scene and status, and I would not have met him if I didn’t go out that one-night by myself and been willing to meet new people, instead of hovering back to a group I came with.
Understand that going out in groups is great and will help you meet people, but you also want to stir away from dependency to have complete freedom and flexibility over your social and dating life to be social independent.
This gives you more options.
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That is like how your boys get you into the club.