Tony Laroche is the co-author and creator of the Radical Inner Game program. He’s an inner-game specialist who help men become more confident around women, get over approach anxiety, and live life with a higher sense of self-esteem.
1.) Tony, tell us a little about yourself?
I was born in Bucharest, Romania but I consider myself a world citizen. I lived for a good period of time in Liverpool, UK and Mexico and so far I visited 24 countries on 4 continents.
I’ve embraced a lot of different cultures and got to meet many beautiful
people along the way. I’m a perpetual collector of hobbies and I take pleasure doing anything from photography, playing soccer, scuba-diving, marathon running, NLP,
sailing, meditation and reading about technology.
At some point in my life I’ve realized that life is a constant journey of personal development. I acknowledged that it’s easier than it seems to be in charge who you want to be.
But life wasn’t always so wonderful.
Some time ago, I was the shyest, most insecure geek you can imagine. Every time I tried to talk to a woman I was paralyzed not knowing what to do or say next. So I started looking online, searching desperately for answers. I‘ve wasted thousands of dollars on courses, seminars, books before I realized it was a big waste.
After all my efforts, I got minimal success – just a few numbers from different girls and a few dates which went nowhere. I was so desperate I was willing to do anything.
2.) How did you get involved in helping men with their dating life?
After I‘ve met with an old friend, Peter, who seemed to miraculously turn his life around, I decided to track down the “mysterious man” from Mexico, who he mentioned, called Dr. Jay Polmar and finally solve my dating problems.
Dr. Jay is a retired psychiatrist. In his 40 years of experience, he has counseled over 1,200 people, and has written 45 books translated in 9 languages. From the day Dr. Jay started working with me, I started molding myself into this irresistible lady‘s men. Using hypnotherapy, Dr. Jay changed my life.
So I approached Dr. Jay with a crazy idea to create the ultimate hypnosis program for people just like me, who want to start having crazy success with women, a system that will directly install inner-game inside your mind using the power of medical hypnosis.
3.) What’s the biggest problems you’ve encountered with guys and with your life in wanting to get better with women?
Getting over the crippling fear that is holding one back from even opening his mouth to speak is the main problem one encounters in the dating game. If you can’t approach a woman, you’re pretty much guaranteed to fail at seducing them.
We all have fears in our life. But seriously, how’s talking to a girl scarier than learning to swim or driving a car for the first time? Your mind deals with fear in the same way either if it’s walking through fire or kissing a girl for the first time.
Now since the primary causes of anxiety are rooted with our mind and our subconscious thoughts, it makes sense that it can be dealt with and cured by changing the way we think and by overcoming limiting beliefs.
4.) What’s your thought on outer-game techniques because it seem you’re more of a proponent of inner-game?
The thing about seduction is that it’s mostly a non-verbal game, outer-game is just the tip of the iceberg.
The wonderful thing about having strong inner-game is that it seeps into your outer-game through your non-verbal communication. You have to realize that much of your success with women depends on your confidence far more than on your techniques.
Strong inner-game knocks out neediness, approval seeking and try-hard indicators from your non-verbal communication and replaces them with a relaxed and positive vibe, which women respond strongly to.
Once you understand that your core personality, moral principles, and strong values are what really matter, the way you look, talk and act will be deeply affected.
5.) In terms of talking to women, how does inner-game help somebody struggling to come up with things to say?
Contrary to what most men believe, seduction is about so much more than saying a few magic lines to a woman and having them jump right into the sack. The pick-up routines might work for the first 5-minutes, but what happens when you run out of things to say?
Most of the seduction programs are destined to turn you into a social robot. If you spend a good part of your interactions with women worrying about what you’re going to say next and how she’s going to respond, your interactions aren’t going to be much fun.
Strong inner-game helps you be congruent with what you say and what you do by seamlessly connecting your conscious and subconscious. Once you develop a strong inner-game you will feel at ease when talking to women, and you‘ll notice how conversations just flow naturally and go into the direction you want without effort.
6.) If you had to give a guy “1 magic solution” advice of what he can do now to instantly make him a ladies man…what would that be?
You have probably been told that there is no magic pill. That’s true. If you would ask me to name the most important thing in the game of seduction this would be it: self-confidence, this is the core of your inner-game. Unfortunately it isn’t a thing that can be taught over night, there’s no magic pill for it.
Self-confidence is a state of mind that allows you to achieve anything you truly desire; girls are no exception, just the sweet prize at the top. And you need to believe only one thing: if your mind wants one thing, with the right guidance, it will find a way to get it.
Developing confidence involves crafting a strong and desirable identity that is congruent with your seducer’s character. Building strong inner-game will help you embrace yourself, flaws and all, and see the world around you with a perspective that is fresh and full of possibility, helping you become a confident man that every woman hopes of crossing paths with.
7.) What’s your biggest mistake you have made and the best advice you’ve ever gotten along your way to get where you are now?
The biggest mistake one makes while trying to improve his inner-game is concentrating on the persona not the self. In other words: concentrating on how they appear in the eyes of their friends, family, whatever, instead of focusing on making real changes on their personality that actually last.
Any real change starts within, acting cool and throwing “smart” lines will only get you halfway. Reshaping limiting beliefs and managing your inner-voice are the essential things you need to change in order to nail your inner-game.
8.) Your program Radical Inner Game, tell us about it. There are a bunch of inner game courses out there, or, should I also say, mediation programs as well. What makes Radical Inner Game different from the other stuffs out there?
I run the product Radical Inner Game. If you’re tired of going through yet more theories, canned lines and routines, this is probably the best product you can go for. It’ll slash your learning curve and gradually turn you into a natural.
This isn’t some cheap hypnosis track recorded by a novice who doesn‘t even know what hypnosis is. This is a professional-recording created by Dr. Jay, and it took months to create because we wanted it to be a complete package that anyone can use.
Well, we simply took all the existing products on the market, reviewed them, distilled and boiled down their core ideas and beliefs and turned them into hypnotic suggestions. Plus, you can find NLP and self-help techniques that will further strengthen your game.
This is a unique A-to-Z system, which without conscious effort installs amazingly advanced dating skills straight into your mind and your behavior in an incredibly short time. Once you experience the Radical Inner Game program, you’ll feel like you’ve got the secret that’s been eluding you for years.
