All-in-One Guide to Meeting and Dating Hot Models

It’s Fashion Week here in NYC.  You know what that means…

Models here.  Models there.  Models everywhere.

If you ever wanted to meet models, there’s no better time than Fashion Week.  Lots of hot exotic-looking girls from all over the world will be in the same city all hustling around getting with agencies, attending castings-after-castings and fittings…leading all up to their 15 seconds of fame on the runway.

I have dated these creatures called “models” so I thought…let’s talk about dating models and the best approach to getting with them.

It’s every guy’s dream to have at least dated models, pornstars, and strippers in their lifetime.  However, if they’re not your special-cup of tea and you only go for a normal, nice good-girl, then kudos to you too…your parents raised you well…too well may I add.

Best Way To Meet Models

In meeting and dating models, you’re going have to take a different approach.  You have to get into the scene and go where they regularly congregate.

Take for instance, if you want to date celebrities, you would have to get into that scene as well because they wouldn’t bother with somebody that’s not already within that “in-crowd” aka an unknown everyday-Joe outsider.  In fact, you would never be able to meet them with all their securities.

Getting involved in the fashion industry is the biggest leverage you can have to meeting models.

Note that doesn’t mean you have to slave yourself away being a designer with no life, or kill yourself chiseling the perfect sculpted, body-structure of a model.

(If you thought being a fashion-designer was all about the parties, it’s nothing but endless stress and work; and being a model is not that easy and glamorous as portrayed.)

Rarely will you find models at a regular pedestrian hangout-spot.

Think about it, would you ever see A-List celebrities hanging out at a normal establishment on a typical Friday night where every walking-pedestrian can get into?

(Ok, maybe once, in the rarest blue moon, but you’re going to be wasting your time going there over-and-over again in the hopes of meeting some famous A-List celebrity with no guarantee.)

If the place were a regular celebrity spot, walking-pedestrians wouldn’t make 10-feet in front of that door.  (Off-limit to the in-crowd only.)

Instead, GO where THEY GO.

That’s why it’s better to become a regular within the same-scene and go to the same-locations

Have friends or connections in this scene who can pull you in, like how I got into it.  That’s why it’s important to have great social skills to make friends like these.

I have talked about raising your social status.  The best way to raise your social status is to diversify your social circle by having a cool “social circle A” outside of that “social circle B” you want to get into.  Having one will make you seem cool in each other one.

Now the easiest way you can get access to high-end events and parties where models go, is to become sort-of-a-promoter…promoting, covering, and helping give exposure to these events/parties as way of a media because hosts and organizers do love more publicity.

Think of it as a WIN-WIN Situation.  You get access for giving them more publicity.

Or do something-related surrounding the industry, like photography, and become a photographer like Patrick McMullan.

If you don’t know who Patrick McMullan is, then you’re not in the social elite yet. 🙂 He’s neither an actor nor singer nor all the things associated with being a celebrity, so I wouldn’t blame you if you didn’t’ know who he was.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Patrick_McMullan

I have friends who are not the best-looking guys, but they’re simply just photographers either as a profession or just a hobbit, and they’re banging models left-and-right, and always getting the most exclusive invites because the inviters want them there for coverage.

Getting into photography is a great stepping-stone granting you access into meeting models anybody can do, without being a model, fashion-designer, model agent/booker, or nightlife promoter.

Ok, so now you’re in the “in-crowd” and are hanging out at regular-spots where models party…but how do you actually meet them?

“Ahhh, another daunting task? Seriously Gabriel?”

If you ever go out to these upscale venues, you will notice these model crowds are barricaded by ropes in the VIP-section, with their douchey promoters stopping every one of your attempt to approach them.  Try being too aggressive…thinking you’re the shit dominating-one, and you’ll get your ass thrown out and blacklisted.

Your only chance of approaching the girl is when she leaves her section to the bar or bathroom with only marginal time to talk to her and get her attracted to you before she has to return to her table, but then you’ll still have your work cut out for you…

Most of these models come out together all from the same modeling agency, so you’ll also have bypass her other hot model friends’ barrier from protecting her friend, and the biggest obstacle of their promoter’s cockblock.  You can try befriending the promoter’s, but that’s going to be difficult in a nightclub…considering they know why you’re doing it going after their girls and hocking free-drinks from their table.

Once again, this brings me back to the philosophy of “Not invading as outsider, but involving as insider.”  You need to already know them by hanging out within the same in-crowd as these folks do.

For example, here’s a potential social dynamic:

– you meet Person A at a casual BBQ
– Person A invites you to the beach and you meet Person B
– Person B invites you to a nightclub
– You mean Person C at the nightclub who is a promoter
– Now that Person C invites you out to his exclusive parties with models

As another example as a way of thinking of this, the best way to date a stripper is to meet and know them outside of their line-of-work…for they will never date a customer.

How To Date Models?

So now you know models in your life, but how do you date them?

Dating models aren’t’ really that much different than dating a normal gal once you’re part of the in-crowd in regularly meeting them.  The hardest part was getting in meeting them.

However, if you don’t think you have a shot of dating models…think again!

You would think models only date good-looking guys or other models, not true.  They fuck other models, but not necessarily want to be in relationship with them.

Let me put this way…models are secretly insecure.  On the surface, everything seems so perfect and glamorous, but behind this veil-of-confidence lurks a nervous tension they have to endure.

They turn to drugs, live this fake-life with fake-people they called “friends” who worship them and want to get into their panties just for their looks.

Naturally, they would have their guards up, but if you’re part of the industry in-crowd, they will be friendly and receptive all because they have to or their career could potentially end with one bad apple.

* Another reason why being involved in this industry in-crowd, will dramatically help you in dating them.

Modeling is the most unstable, turbulence industry, especially for girls, where youth is praised, and there will always be a younger prettier-face.  Basically models are disposable.

If you can provide that anchor to her by being a strong man, you can have a model-girlfriend.

Yes, may require work but the payoff to waking up every morning naked to a tall, prefect-skin, and luscious-hair hottie in your bed, meeting her beautiful friend, and getting into the most exclusive events and parties all because of her…you can throw away your bucket list.

Overall, I hope you understand that meeting models is more than just fancy tactics, it’s about creating a lifestyle conducive to meeting them.

Now I get into far more in-depth details about all of these in my Nightly Nomad Course.  If you’re interested, just go check it out.

(To download the PDF version saved to your computer for easy reference, go here.)

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