Hope you had a Happy New Year’s!
This New Year’s Eve, unfortunately, I didn’t get into the party in time when the ball dropped while waiting in line, after attending one of my friend’s other party prior.
So I didn’t have a New Year’s Countdown make-out session, but I made up for it with “New Year’s Hug of Love”…that resulted in x-amount of make-outs and pulled one girl into the bathroom.
“The Hug of Love” is a great physical-way to approach a girl while touching her that is perfectly acceptable and non-creepy
Here’s what you do:
Walk around the room and randomly give everybody hugs…and I do mean everybody, even the guys and not just the hot girls, or else it won’t be as effective, and you won’t appear as the fun-loving guy but instead, have an agenda only interested in hugging hot girls.
Follow the hug, with 2-kisses on each side of the cheek (and of course, you don’t have to kiss the guys).
The funny part about the “Hug of Love”, is in hugging the guys first in front of the girls, and then give those adjacent girls the same hug but followed with 2-kisses on the cheeks to escalate the kino-touching.
If she kisses back and stalls you in any way from hugging the next person, she is receptive to you, so dance with her. If not, keep moving on to next person in the room with your “Hug of Love”.
When you’re done giving “Hug of Love” and haven’t found a girl yet, don’t be looking around for a girl; instead, stare at the floor or ceiling while dancing near the girl you want to approach and be totally enthralled within the music like you’re in a trance, unlike the other creepy-guys who only step near the girl they’re interested in, eyeing her like a predator and hoping she will let him dance with her.
You can’t half-ass it. You have to be 100-percent enthralled in the music, or you will be incongruent, and the girl will know you are secretly trying to pick her up.
Then after awhile, go back to hugging everybody again, even if you already hugged them.
The key to make this entire thing work is to be the non-threatening and fun-loving guy, hugging and loving everybody because being fun is non-threatening.
Now doesn’t just have to be New Year’s, but can also be Independence Day, Halloween, Christmas, Valentine’s Day, Happy Labor Day, Happy Saint Patrick’s Day, etc….as long as there is a reason, aka “special occasion” to randomly approach everybody with a hug.
There is no better physical-way to approach girls than giving special occasion “Hug of Love”, followed by 2 cheek-kisses.
Wait…but what about if there is no holiday or special occasion?
Well, “Happy Friday/Saturday/Weekend!”
