Well hello, hello…do you know what today is?
Can I hear a drum-roll?
(Dum, dum, dum, dum, dum)…today is the one and only Valentine Day’s!
(Man Gabriel, can you be any more cheesier?)
I totally agree, I gotta work on my theatrical presentation some more then. 🙂
Either you love Valentine’s or hate it, you can’t help but feel the effect this day of the year has on you.
This Saturday over the past Valentine’s weekend, I went out to some Anti-Valentine’s event, where all the single folks conglomerated to express their anti-V. Hey, if you’re single and seeing all the other couples smooching it in public on this time of the year, who wouldn’t?
I was supposed to go with one of my friend. We were so pumped about it on that day, but at the very last minute when I went over to this place, he was puking and couldn’t get himself out of bed so I had to go by myself.
Now if I said I wasn’t pissed, that would be the farthest thing from the truth. I had to recatch my balance because I was so caught off guard and wasn’t expecting to go out solely; and for most guys there would be a tiny-voice in their head telling them to just stay in and call it a night, but somehow I used that to fuel me.
It has been awhile since I’ve gone out by myself, so it was extremely refreshing to finally be back in the jungle alone to survive again.
A rule of declaration that should always be engraved in your head is “Never let a night be ruined just because of somebody else.”
Though, I still love my friend. He’s one of the coolest guys I know and the best wing-man I could ask for. He was probably over-preparing himself. Poor thing. 🙁
I should probably thank him because I was so ignited when no longer had that security of being out with another person and using that energy the entire night when I was out, I ended up hooking up with a girl who happened to just turned 21 the week before, and I actually went home with her, but we agreed to it being a one-night thing; so technically, having a single-label would be much more accurate.
I just want to impart a message to all the single guys out there…
If you’re one of the lonely hearts, don’t fret…you not the only one. There are lots of hot, attractive single women feeling left out and just want to find a Valentine’s, so there’s still plenty of time for you to find somebody. If not, just go out have fun and don’t be so attached to what this day is supposed to be expected of you.
To me, being single on Valentine’s is no big deal as I choose it by choice; beside, it wouldn’t be as much being in a relationship as having a dating lifestyle. Regardless though, I’m still going to go out and have a good time.
As a matter of fact, enjoy being single as long as you can. That’s when you’re most free, and when you finally tied down, you would crave to experience that dating freedom again.
Happy Anti-V-Day!
Guys can learn a lot more going out by themselves than anything else. Glad you didn’t let not having anbody to go out with stop you
Thanks Xax, I’m thinking about creating a very indept program regarding going out by yourself because this is a huge problem for guys to even take initiative to improve their dating life.